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  1. Rhonda Albom
    February 23, 2016

    Well said, and funny too – in the right spots. I have travelled with my parents and sister and our families – and we all have completely different experiences. Not better or worse, just different and we all are happy in the end.

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    • Talon Windwalker
      February 24, 2016

      Being happy in the end is quite important.

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  2. Nita
    March 13, 2015

    Well said! There are too many snobs out there who think only their way is the right way to travel. I absolutely agree with you that everyone has their own styles, and none is wrong as long as you’re not offending someone or breaking any rules. A few other terms that annoy me include ‘doing a place’ (c’mon – travel isn’t laundry, you don’t do it! Haha), ticking off the list (sounds a bit technical like that’s the only reason you’re traveling) and somehow the overused ‘off the beaten path’. 😀

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 15, 2015

      Yeah that “doing” comment is almost like nails on a chalkboard. That ticking off the list thing is part of why I don’t like bucket lists either. I’ve seen too many people breeze through a place just so they could mark it off their list. I’d rather have a lower count of places visited and spend more quality time in a place, personally.

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  3. Katie
    March 11, 2015

    The judgementalness of people seems to be worse lately when it comes to the old tourist vs traveller debate. Everyone is different and wants different things out of their travel. I just do what interests me whether that is to visit somewhere touristy or to go backcountry camping with no other people – both are fun

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 11, 2015

      Exactly! It’s such an individual thing. The only wrong way is if you’re doing someone else’s version instead of your own.

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  4. Monique
    March 11, 2015

    To me every one of my travels is authentic – to me! They are authentic in the way I visit/experience the places, and regardless if it is staying in a resort just de-compressing or sightseeing for 14 hours in a day, that’s what makes it authentic!

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 11, 2015

      You got it! I definitely agree.

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  5. Sam
    March 10, 2015

    Amen, Talon! I occasionally kinda like touristy places, because they’re usually touristy for a good reason, but I absolutely wouldn’t plan my whole trip around visiting only places that are super famous, and I’m often turned off by “must-sees” (even though we spent 3 months in Peru, we didn’t visit Machu Picchu). Yes, I’m a walking contradiction.

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 10, 2015

      Yeah, they’re usually touristy for a reason, but definitely wouldn’t want to spend massive amounts of time in tourist central. Three months in Peru, and you didn’t visit MP?! Wow! Although, to be honest, you didn’t miss much. It’s cool, but it wasn’t a place I’d go out of my way visit really.

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  6. Michelle from Canada
    March 10, 2015

    This post is so true. I read it last night and woke my husband up to read it to him. Loved the last line especially.

    We’re on a RTW trip with our 11 year old twins. We’re in the sixth month of nine months. I wish we could travel like this all the time but I know we can’t. In the past we have enjoyed a couple of great cruises and I know that we will go on cruises again. I’ve never been to a resort before but, who knows, never say never.

    As travellers, we need to build a more inclusive community, not an exclusive one.

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 10, 2015

      I absolutely agree, and it’s so wonderful to meet another traveling family! Maybe you’ll get to extend your time out. 😉

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  7. coffee in a cup
    March 10, 2015

    well put!

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 10, 2015

      Thanks!

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  8. Melanie Murrish
    March 10, 2015

    I just wrote a piece (on my yet to be released website) about how to find authentic Spain in Benidorm, and in fact my site has the word “authentic” in it…..I tossed and turned as to whether to use it, but I struggled to find an alternative to describe what I’m trying to promote. I’ve tried to convey the message that if it’s in that country it’s authentic, but it doesn’t mean it’s typical-so hard trying to get the right balance without sounding snobby. 🙂

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 10, 2015

      And “typical” doesn’t have quite the sound to it as “authentic.” Yeah, tough one. I’m glad you’ll be explaining that to people, though. Too many people don’t get that just because a place has adapted to tourism doesn’t necessarily mean it’s inauthentic.

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  9. Rebecca Hall (Bex)
    March 9, 2015

    I think the whole ‘debate’ is open to a certain snobbishness about travelling. As you correctly stated: everyone has different reasons for taking the type of holidays/travels that they do – it doesn’t make them right or wrong.

    Great article – thanks.

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 10, 2015

      Absolutely!

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  10. Jane
    March 9, 2015

    Well, I already traveled in many countries and I saw many nice places, but if I returned in the same place three times because I felt very well there it means that I’m not an authentic traveler?

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    • Talon Windwalker
      March 9, 2015

      You travel to places, therefore you’re an authentic traveler.

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      • Patti
        March 9, 2015

        I always find it amusing when someone complains about a destination being too touristy. Guess what, I’m a tourist. But, I also have the ability to visit the tourist spot and then move on. We happen to be in Prague and are there “tourist” spots? Oh yeah. But just walk 10 minutes in any direction and you’re away from the crowds. And I’m pretty sure that’s the case in most major travel destinations. There is no one right way to travel, what works for me may not work for someone else. Who cares?! Just own it and enjoy it. I think that’s what you just said. 😉

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      • Talon Windwalker
        March 10, 2015

        Yep! You get it, which I already knew. 😉

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